Bonded Through Volunteerism: Holly and Cynthia’s Story

cynthia-and-hollyHolly Franklin and Cynthia Giesecke started as strangers, both attending the National Military Family Association’s West Region Training Conference, held in San Diego, California. They both applied to become Volunteers with our Association as a way to better the lives of other military families. Little did they know that volunteering, and even just attending the conference, would change their lives so drastically.

Upon learning they’d be traveling to California for the conference, Holly and Cynthia had very different reactions.

Cynthia immediately answered with a “YES!”

Holly debated going at all – she had never visited California, or even traveled alone.

Once they arrived in San Diego, as fate would have it, they ended up being roommates.

It didn’t take long before the two discovered their awkward jokes and weird sense of humor was immediately embraced by the other. The first night, they stayed up talking for hours, telling stories about themselves, and their experiences as military spouses. Holly had grown up as a Marine brat, and was a new military spouse, while Cynthia lived in a Reservist’s house, and was a more seasoned military spouse.

When asked about Cynthia, Holly beamed with admiration for her new friend.

“Cynthia is an incredibly active person at her installation. I immediately admired her for how open she was to other people, and compassionate to everyone’s situation – however unique it may be. She gave me so much insight and advice to what works on certain installations. When I told her of my concerns and situations in my community, she told me about resources I could use to help. Being a new spouse, it was so wonderful to gain information and tips that would have taken me years to figure out if I hadn’t met her.”

Cynthia shared in Holly’s excitement.

“Holly has a lot of passion and is motivated and willing to serve her community. Although she would say that we inspired her, she inspired us. As a seasoned spouse, we are often overwhelmed and ‘burnt out.’ But speaking to new spouses reminds us of our reasons for serving and gives us a renewed spirit. We also cannot forget where we started, and help others maneuver through this military spouse adventure. We can learn a lot from each other. It’s amazing how quickly Holly and I ‘clicked.’ I often told her we were kindred spirits. I cannot wait to see what the future holds for her, and the amazing things she’s going to accomplish in the communities she touches.”

Volunteering is a great way to help others, but something more unique about volunteering is the way it can bring individuals together who share a passion for the same cause. With like-minded people in one room, it’s no wonder two of our special Volunteers formed a connection, turned friendship, that will last a lifetime.

Have you ever made a connection through Volunteering that you didn’t expect? How did it turn out?

Posted by Shannon Sebastian, Online Engagement Manager, Holly Franklin and Cynthia Giesecke, National Military Family Association Volunteers

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